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sense of belongingY

actually other than waiting to feel BELONGED
one should learn how to make oneself BELONGED

the way of creating sense of belonging is to learn to accept and to blend in
ACCEPT
whu they are
what they have done
how they behave
BLEND INTO
their habit
their thinking
their everyday lifestyle

but you choose not to accept our flaws
you choose not to appreciate our presences
you choose to complain how biased he is how not obedient she is how irritating i am
you choose to believe we are casting u out
you dunwan to accept this kind of family members lyk us

you stay most of the time outside
not wanting to stay at home
juz because you feel that there's nth to do at home
but actually by juz slacking at home you will feel HOME
you spend most of the time outside
whenever u come home emtpy-stomach it happen that mummy nvr cook
but whenever u are too tired or have eaten outside or juz dun feel lyk eating it happen that mummy cook
and you noe what
even when mummy got a feeling that u wunt be coming hm for dinner she still insist to cook ur portion and left some dinner for u in case u want to eat
do you ever feel that we do not care for you?
do you noe that that day you went malaysia visiting jegan
mummy was worried why you so long havnt reach home

did you ever stay at hm juz to accompany them play mahjong?
did you ever stay at hm juz to hear them chatting about their old days their old friends?
did you ever spare a thought for ur SISTER even though you dunt lyk her at all by not giving her face in public?

dun act pitiful as if we are lefting u out
it is actually YOU the one whu is isolating urself from us
if you are ASHAMED that we are your family
juz say it
dun act lyk we are seeing you as transparent when we actually got care for you
its juz that they are scared that you will feel resticted if they request you dont do this dont do that

dun juz stand down there crying that you dun feel belonged
why muz you wait for us to come hold ur hand and say plz join in
why cant you take a step forward to accept the imperfect us and blend in wif us instead
there are things that you should make the effort before you come to conclusion
if you dun feel belonged
then try to be belonged
no point standing at the same spot waiting for nth

taKe mi aWay..Monday, January 12, 2009.01:15







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1. plz take mi away
2. learn how to roller blade so thaat i can skate to work XD
3. save $$$ for pair of skaters
4. dye and hopefully perm my hair before cny =)
5. eat less too difficult, think exercise more can le =p
6. nice pair of spectacles

$$money$$money$$ pls come to mi!!

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